I’m also currently dating a guy, and I don’t know how he’d feel about all of this. A: Anyone who has taken a Human Sexuality 101 class knows about the Kinsey Scale.
Famous sex researcher Alfred Kinsey believed that sexual identity was a continuum, with gay on one end and straight on the other.
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Now, onto this week’s topic: How to explore your bi-curiosity.
Unless you feel confident that a hook-up wouldn’t make things weird with your friend, I’d suggest experimenting with someone else.
Finding someone to hook up with can feel a little embarrassing, and might take some time.
Drunken hookups can be a lot of fun, but they probably won’t help you figure out where you stand with the ladies.
If you’re genuinely curious about your attraction to women, you’ll probably want to try hooking up when you’re sober.The only problem is I’ve never actually done anything with a girl.I came close to making out with my friend while we were drunk and at a party together, but I’m worried about making things weird between us.We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship.But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions?Start paying more attention to the women in your classes, in your dorm, and at parties, and notice who you’re attracted to. You can also try online dating sites, or look into LGBT support groups at your university.