She knew that Sam felt extremely lucky to be with her and she used his insecurity and feelings of unworthiness to make herself feel better about having been dumped by her boyfriend.
A few weeks into the relationship, Sam became clingy and she began to feel turned off the idea of being with him.
Before long, she called him up to say, and then met up with him to break up with him in person and watch him grovel, cry and beg for another chance.
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man really works…
As you will discover from the video above, many guys waste much of their lives hoping to get women to realize how good of a guy they are.
Over the years, I have been surprised at how common the “Sam” story is for guys out there.
It’s pretty much the most common story I come across; especially for guys who are looking to get an ex girlfriend back. Most guys fumble their way into relationships without any real knowledge or awareness of how to attract and seduce women properly.
The thing is, women rarely, if ever approach men, but this particular woman had just been dumped by her boyfriend (a confident guy that could have pretty much any woman he wanted), so she felt drawn to Sam’s shyness and vulnerability.
She was drunk, but instinctively, she knew that Sam’s shyness and lack of self-esteem would give her the perfect opportunity to be in control of everything if they had a relationship.Today’s women are encouraged by society to break up with unsatisfactory men, so the days of guys being able to get through life as a shy, insecure guy are pretty much over.Asking, is a classic example of where guys go wrong when it comes to success with women.I get tons of emails asking me about flirting tips for women and especially how to get a shy guy to come out of his shell.Well, with a shy guy you have to be more available, take the lead more often and maybe even give him the first kiss.Watch this free training and I will share the secret with you. My name is Dan Bacon and I used to be hopeless with women.