He was not bothered by the age difference but could easily go 2-3 weeks without seeing me…would call me every day and text every day.
I just couldn’t keep it up after 9 months that he would never make a plan or cancel due to work.
I got the vibe he just wasn’t that interested in me and broke up with him.
He was a great guy too but figured he would eventually want to get married and have kids with someone.
And in the absence of giving yourself an entire personality-ectomy, the smartest thing you can do is a) be aware of some of your tendencies to dominate and b) find a partner who is cool with them.
You, apparently, have done both of those things, Michelle.
Do I continue to utilize patience or should I move on?
Dear Michelle, Thanks for reading “Why He Disappeared – The Smart, Strong, Successful Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever”.Basically, WHD was written for alpha females who want to date alpha males.It was a way to open your eyes about how the men you’re the MOST attracted to don’t necessarily want to date you in return.He communicates with me daily, mostly through text message, to which I always respond warmly.My question: We’re texting everyday, but he’ll wait FOREVER, (in actuality, 5-7 days) before asking to see me again. Is this a downside of dating a typical beta (i.e., no initiative) or is he just not that interested in me?I’m typically attracted to alpha males so I was very confused by his behavior.