Ask the silly questions that you think will be laughed at.
There is a good chance that they are assuming you are thinking just that anyway… Just because various parts of the body doesn’t work, doesn’t mean that other’s don’t.
Outsiders is a social, peer support and dating club, run by and for socially and physically disabled people.
Our members have a wide range of impairments, including visual and hearing impairment.
Think about it – you’re already one step ahead in the game! How can you expect someone to help you with something if you don’t know what kind of help that you need? Internet dating has made the dating world easier for everyone but for disabled people, it has given them something of a lifeline.
You show vulnerability, which can especially work in the favour of men. In the same breath, how can you expect someone to know how to deal with something that you yourself haven’t yet learned how to deal with? For those that have a disability that leave them housebound, online dating can be the only thing you’ll need to meet someone new and exciting.
It shows that you know how to ask and accept for help. Women and men love to nurture and care for a vulnerable person… Your first start to dating should probably be a site designed for dating for special needs or the disabled. The times are changing and it would appear you should be too!
First of all, you have nothing to lose, and secondly, you may make great friends. Who knows who you might meet as you ‘’ through the bucket-loads of hunky and handsome men, or blonde and busty women.
We are YOUR home to find a loving match who will treat you with respect and love irregardless of your disability.
If you don't know where to start, we are here to help. If you are disabled, it doesn't mean you can't have a vivid love life; however, you might need to make few adjustments in order to make it as pleasurable as possible.
It’s always good to have a support network around you and you never know, you might even learn something. Disabled dating websites specifically created to help people like you and me find love are a great way to start if you don’t feel ready to join the big pond of “” dating sites.
You’ll all have something in common on these websites too, so you’ll always have something to talk about. The more you ignore it, the more it will become the ‘elephant in the room’ as they say.
Outsiders campaigns for disabled and disfigured people to receive good sex and disability education, and be accepted as sexual, loving partners.