Truth is, just like there's no perfect pick-up line that works 100% of the time at the bars, there's no perfect email that's going to attract every girl online.
But luckily, you don't need perfect words to get women digging you online... In fact, most women respond better to simple, mildly humorous, and brief emails.
I will get to some sample emails, but before I do, let's look at a few, simple guidelines to help you write that irresistible introductory email to the potential future love of your life:1.
Anyway, come take a look at my profile and if you like what you see, email me! You want to end your email with a command, not a request. Point 1: How to be funny There is a current trend amongst guys to go with a “shock her” type approach when they are meeting women, where they are a little bit cocky, a little bit funny.
Salesmen and marketers call it a “call to action”, like “BUY NOW! anything is better than a passive and wussy “come look at my profile.” You’d honestly be better off ending it with “zombie monkeys are eating my fingers as I type, email me back or they’ll finish me off! (I’m trying to avoid actually saying “cocky/funny” as coined by David De Angelo, OK? First, read her profile up and down, back and forth. Sure, we skim them over a couple times and look for points to talk about, but we don’t read between the lines. Here’s a section of a woman’s profile:“I’ve been here before, perhaps to many times, each time a little more jaded.
However, I prefer to go for the gold and ask for the date right there in the first email.
It's emails like this that show women you've got a pair, and that, is what hooks 'em!
About the Author: Jake Vandenhoff is author of the Online Dating Playbook.
Learn how to attract women from the serenity of your own living-room by employing simple psychological principles.A friend and I were talking about how creepy and weird guys can be the other day. I figured how much creepier can these guys actually get.She then told me about her Plenty of Fish online dating profile and started sending me screen shots of the guys pick up lines and attempts at naked pictures and actual dates (screenshots follow).I sat and read these with my jaw dropped, and laughed for hours.My real question is how many of these guys are actually successful?! "Hey, I like collecting chopsticks, you like collecting chopsticks! ;-)" One last thing: use emoticons and acronyms, but use them sparingly.