Not once in the time I’ve known them (about eight years) have I heard them mention their height as a disadvantage.
When I mention how they’re with a taller girl they give me a weird look or just shrug it off.
In their mind it’s not even an issue, and they definitely don’t treat it as a weakness. If you betray someone’s trust or steal out of your mom’s purse or start a religious argument on Facebook, you deserve to be ashamed. There’s that old quote about not worrying about things that we can’t change.
They even have problems with girls in their lives fighting over them. What is it about these dudes that enables them to attract so many women?
I think it comes down to three principles, all three of which can be worked into your own mindset and behaviors.
They’re attracted to a guy based on how he carries himself and how he treats her, not on how large the height discrepancy happens to be.
They tend to laugh at me when I ask if they have something against shorter guys.
Everything would be fine until she’d pull a pair of heels out of her closet. There was a girl in one of my classes at the University of Florida.
I’d hope and pray she’d wear some other type of shoes. I knew she was on the volleyball team because she’d always wear their apparel.
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I’ve come to believe that, like most insecurities, equating a lack of height with a lack of attractiveness or desirability is all in my head.
Ironically, my two shortest friends are the ones with no problems getting girlfriends or attracting girls.
I’d pray we’d be leaving the classroom at the same time and happen to be walking home in the same direction.